.......... The Golden Rule:
"NO means NO"............
Anyone may say "NO" for any reason
at any time even if you are in the middle of a swinging encounter and have
changed your mind and want to stop it right there! If you are in a
situation that makes you uncomfortable, just say
"NO". Do not jeopardize your happiness & satisfaction
with this lifestyle, or that of your partner, by doing something against
your will just because you are afraid to say no. The friendliest way is to
say, "oh no thank you, but thanks for asking." Be honest
initially, and you will avoid any misunderstandings.
Don't forget that peoples attitudes change and who
knows? Maybe sometime in the future you may meet again with a different
opinion.
All guests must respect the personal privacy of others. No acts of
violence or rude conduct to guests or staff will be allowed. Our staff
members are always willing to try to correct any unpleasant situation.
Treat one another with respect. After all, this is a party! Besides, you
don't want to be rude or judgmental, because you wouldn't want it to
happen to you. If a person talks to you and you are not interested, that
doesn't mean you can't be nice to them. They are a person just like you!
Just politely let them know, that you are not interested.
If you are rejected (and it happens to everyone,
including women), Do Not take personal offense. Rejection is a very
personal thing, and it's almost as hard to reject as it is to be rejected.
Honesty with each other is crucial. Who knows? You could end up with a
great friendship if you handle the situation right.
Deal with jealousy head on! It is a normal reaction. Remember that this is
strictly a physical & recreational pleasure, not an emotional one.
Discover what triggers jealousy in your relationship and work it out
together. It may mean modifying your activities, but your relationship
together is not worth jeopardizing over swinging.
Always let your steady partner know she/he is number one. Arrive together,
take time to caress them, touch base often, it makes one feel secure. and
always leave together.
Use your common sense and good judgment when you are involved in a
swinging situation. Be kind, thoughtful, and sensitive. Swingers, couples
& single ladies are people and have feelings too!!!
Honor any and all prior understandings & rules you have made between
each other, and be sure to communicate
with each other openly and honestly so there are no misunderstandings
about your rules.
Respect the guidelines you set as a couple and communicate them to
prospective partners. Open, honest communication is imperative to forming
relationships! And please don't forget to respect the guidelines of
others.
