1. What is swinging?

Swinging is a lifestyle of which couples agree to arrange meeting others, singles or couples, to meet for the purpose of engaging in an intimate and/or sexual situation with a partner or partners other than their own.

The inception of swinging is centuries old. The contemporary and refined art of swinging started in the early 1950’s. During that time the only way to meet other swingers was through personal ads or other avenues of classified communication. Since the internet boom, swing activists interested in the lifestyle can express their desires in a digital platform with nationwide and worldwide access to a broader world of The Lifestyle.

2. Who are swingers?

Swingers mostly consists of male/female couples meeting with other male/female couples for sex and ongoing intimate trysts. Single men may be able to attend a limited number or events. Caligula's Temple will allow a limited number of select "single men" for events with the exceptions of Saturdays and other scheduled events that may not warrant the attendance of "single men".

3. What about single women?

Single women may attend any party or event we host. 

4. We are a couple and would like to bring a friend with us. Is that ok?

We welcome any couple or couples to invite a guest. The guest must be female if Saturday night and will be charged $25 to attend. Male guest is permitted on Thursday or Friday evenings. Fee information is available on our "Membership" link.

5. Is there benefit's to becoming a Swinger?

The main attraction of swinging is exploring your discrete sexual side with your partner and reaching your desires and fantasies in a common and honest atmosphere. Swinging is not for everyone but has enhanced many couples relationships sexually and emotionally. The benefits are what you make it. The relationship should always be stronger than any desires or fantasies you may have. Swinging to most couples is just that, Swinging. Its casual, non emotional and solely sexual.

6. Do swing couples have rules?

Lifestyle couples all have individual rules they follow to make their personal experience exactly what they both want it to be. Communication and trust are the keys. As you encounter more couples and more situations, you will find that "rules" are different with almost everyone. Any and all rules and restrictions should be endorsed by you and your partner together.

7. What are the general rules at Caligula's Temple?

Here are some general guidelines and rules when attending Caligula's Temple:

A. "NO means absolutely NO"! No exceptions. Respect. When a "NO" occurs, All activities should cease and with no explanation because no explanation is necessary. The most polite way to say no is by saying, "No thank you, but we appreciate you asking". Your relationship is the priority.

B. Treat everyone you encounter with respect, meaning be polite and courteous.
We expect Caligula's events to be fun, sexy and adventurous. Rudeness, being obnoxious or pushy will just get you removed from our club.